"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quick # question

white cloud 8

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Hi,

Remember I posted awhile back about losing that girl's number within a matter of minutes *smacks forehead...* Anyway, I've been meaning to go and talk to her but, haven't had the time to. She gave me her cell # but, I just checked the phone book and seen her home #. Should I call her or would it look stalker-ish? She gave me her cell #, not her home # :confused:. Should I call and say that I misplaced her number and I just looked her up in the phonebook? Is that wrong?

*I really like this girl but, would this look weird from her point of view?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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quest

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Originally posted by white cloud 8
I just checked the phone book and seen her home #. Should I call her or would it look stalker-ish?
you're already "stalker-ish"
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Re: Re: Quick # question

Originally posted by quest
you're already "stalker-ish"
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

white cloud 8

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bad idea then, right?
 

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I'm guessing you misplaced her cell number, from the sounds of it. While it is creepy that you looked up her number in the phone book (how'd you remember her first and last name but not her number?!) you could always play it off as if she gave you the house number instead.

"Huh? This is your house phone, and not your cell? I don't know what you're talking about - this is the number you gave me... how drunk were you that night?!"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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white cloud 8

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actually she's my classmate from this past year (we were in the same classes).
 

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just tell her that your phone broke and that you lost her number, easy as that

However, if there is no chance you will ever see her again then just call it is better to be rejected then to regret
 

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Hello

If her number is in the phone book, it is a public number. If she didn't want anybody to use her home phone number she would have it unlisted.

Just call her and tell her that you lost her cell number. She probably wont mind. If she does, she will find a way to tell you and that will be the end of it. There is no matter to worry.
 

white cloud 8

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....I'm thinking f*ck it, I'll go see her after class :rockon:. Just grab my balls and go see her. The thing is I feel a little awkward I mean, just drop by and say 'Hi, haven't seen you in a while...blah blah blah...' (I asked for her cell # early last month and haven't seen her around since).
 

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dont tell her anything, making excuses up is weak, it shows weakness if you need to come up with an excuss for finding her number! She is only going to make a big deal of it if you do, so just dont mention it and she wont either!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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