"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Theres a girl ive been gaming for a little bit. she wants more of the friends w/ benefits type (or so she says) shes already told a couple of my friends she wants to have sex with me, and since tomarrow is the last day before our spring break, i was thinking about asking her to hang out. should i say something like "hey maybe we could hang out tomarrow night, or just f*ck" and play it off like a joke. or how should i play my cards so that i finally get the puss?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know that I'd come right out and jokingly mention anything about sex. If she's said that to your friends, I'm sure you could offer anything that involved her coming to your place and you'd be golden. Movie, drinks, whatever...she'll take it if she wants sex.
 

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Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Why would we want to help someone that is going to get some?
lol

Just ask her back to your place for drinks.
 

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kind of hard to tell.

Have you actually talked to this chick, or heard this from your friends?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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