"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Theres a girl ive been gaming for a little bit. she wants more of the friends w/ benefits type (or so she says) shes already told a couple of my friends she wants to have sex with me, and since tomarrow is the last day before our spring break, i was thinking about asking her to hang out. should i say something like "hey maybe we could hang out tomarrow night, or just f*ck" and play it off like a joke. or how should i play my cards so that i finally get the puss?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know that I'd come right out and jokingly mention anything about sex. If she's said that to your friends, I'm sure you could offer anything that involved her coming to your place and you'd be golden. Movie, drinks, whatever...she'll take it if she wants sex.
 

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Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Why would we want to help someone that is going to get some?
lol

Just ask her back to your place for drinks.
 

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kind of hard to tell.

Have you actually talked to this chick, or heard this from your friends?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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