"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Theres a girl ive been gaming for a little bit. she wants more of the friends w/ benefits type (or so she says) shes already told a couple of my friends she wants to have sex with me, and since tomarrow is the last day before our spring break, i was thinking about asking her to hang out. should i say something like "hey maybe we could hang out tomarrow night, or just f*ck" and play it off like a joke. or how should i play my cards so that i finally get the puss?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know that I'd come right out and jokingly mention anything about sex. If she's said that to your friends, I'm sure you could offer anything that involved her coming to your place and you'd be golden. Movie, drinks, whatever...she'll take it if she wants sex.
 

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Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Why would we want to help someone that is going to get some?
lol

Just ask her back to your place for drinks.
 

Rallfus

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kind of hard to tell.

Have you actually talked to this chick, or heard this from your friends?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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