Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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lyur45

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Theres a girl ive been gaming for a little bit. she wants more of the friends w/ benefits type (or so she says) shes already told a couple of my friends she wants to have sex with me, and since tomarrow is the last day before our spring break, i was thinking about asking her to hang out. should i say something like "hey maybe we could hang out tomarrow night, or just f*ck" and play it off like a joke. or how should i play my cards so that i finally get the puss?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know that I'd come right out and jokingly mention anything about sex. If she's said that to your friends, I'm sure you could offer anything that involved her coming to your place and you'd be golden. Movie, drinks, whatever...she'll take it if she wants sex.
 

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Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Why would we want to help someone that is going to get some?
lol

Just ask her back to your place for drinks.
 

Rallfus

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kind of hard to tell.

Have you actually talked to this chick, or heard this from your friends?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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