"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ00

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Should you try to game chicks while you're heartbroken or wait to get happy without women again then start up gaming again?

I've gotten one number of a chick thru myspace tho she might be below my looks standards but not by much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just a Shot Away

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Well, you shouldn't be heartbroken because you shouldn't have let yourself care about a woman that much in the first place. All women are inherently whores; it's in their DNA. Some just hide or suppress it better than others.

If I were you, I'd try to fix that problem first before going after other chicks so you're in the right mindset. Did you read the Bible already?
 

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Yes i have read it. I let my game slip, she showed me love and companionship. I fell in love then sh1t hit the fan. I'm not a robot but ill try to be more careful next time.
 

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DJ00 said:
Should you try to game chicks while you're heartbroken or wait to get happy without women again then start up gaming again?

I've gotten one number of a chick thru myspace tho she might be below my looks standards but not by much.
dude you slackin'...not cool.
 

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Yea i shouldn't be selfish with my sexuality. thanks for the encouragement teacha. lol...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ex Situation... Since going no contact she keeps texting me...

Monday - She sent me a pic and a caption saying," hope ur having a good day"

Tuesday - "If you only knew by shinedown" (mushy song)

Thursday - "DJ00 Help!" (99.9% sure it was an immature attempt to get a text back)

I didn't take the bait on the thursday text because she's used this to get my attention before(immature fake story).. Tho maybe she wanted me to act concerned idk..

What do you guys think? i was going to keep up the NC until the point where she's pretty much begging to hang out with me but i'm not sure if i should intervene in some way.
 

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Proselytiser said:
Say 'Hey who's this? You've texted me XX times the last few days' as if you deleted her number and don't recognise her
decent advice, i'll probably stick to NC for now. there's 2 ways to go about the situation. she's resorted to an immature tactic to get my attention. don't really know what her intentions are at this point. NC could possibly be getting to her but who knows. based on her actions she at least wants my attention.

It all boils down to what i want. I want her to feel the emotion that she lost me to the point where she's thinking about me on a daily/hourly basis. At this point im still in the "i can't make her want me" mode. I'd like to keep this mentality until she at least sweats about this until she is almost begging me to hang out with her. It's pretty cut and dry, if this doesn't happen i can't contact her.

Any other thoughts?
 

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Go hook up with other girls, and keep ignoring your ex.
 

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lol. she texted me tonight asking when we were gonna play a drinking game we use to play together again.. i didn't reply.

good call?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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