"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just a Shot Away
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If I were you, I'd try to fix that problem first before going after other chicks so you're in the right mindset. Did you read the Bible already?
teacha
Senior Don Juan
dude you slackin'...not cool.DJ00 said:Should you try to game chicks while you're heartbroken or wait to get happy without women again then start up gaming again?
I've gotten one number of a chick thru myspace tho she might be below my looks standards but not by much.
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Monday - She sent me a pic and a caption saying," hope ur having a good day"
Tuesday - "If you only knew by shinedown" (mushy song)
Thursday - "DJ00 Help!" (99.9% sure it was an immature attempt to get a text back)
I didn't take the bait on the thursday text because she's used this to get my attention before(immature fake story).. Tho maybe she wanted me to act concerned idk..
What do you guys think? i was going to keep up the NC until the point where she's pretty much begging to hang out with me but i'm not sure if i should intervene in some way.
Proselytiser
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decent advice, i'll probably stick to NC for now. there's 2 ways to go about the situation. she's resorted to an immature tactic to get my attention. don't really know what her intentions are at this point. NC could possibly be getting to her but who knows. based on her actions she at least wants my attention.Proselytiser said:Say 'Hey who's this? You've texted me XX times the last few days' as if you deleted her number and don't recognise her
It all boils down to what i want. I want her to feel the emotion that she lost me to the point where she's thinking about me on a daily/hourly basis. At this point im still in the "i can't make her want me" mode. I'd like to keep this mentality until she at least sweats about this until she is almost begging me to hang out with her. It's pretty cut and dry, if this doesn't happen i can't contact her.
Any other thoughts?
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