"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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panosha

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This mainly applies to girls in college

What do you say when you see a girl wearing pants that say "pink" right on her butt?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you say anything, she may give you a dirty look or call you a "perv." So, don't say anything! Why do guys feel the need to say something based on every little thing they notice!

You could probably think of something ****y/funny to say, but if its with a girl you just met, it may just scare her away.. However, if is with a girl who can take a joke and you have talked to her 1-2 times+ with her, than think of something ****y+funny. I can't think of anything though.
 
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Pretty much, you don't want to come across as a perv. You could just say "hey, I hope that's not the only pink I see on you."
 
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New2Town said:
Pretty much, you don't want to come across as a perv. You could just say "hey, I hope that's not the only pink I see on you."
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LOL how is that not coming across as a perv?

How about, "So I see you have a pink ass"
 
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Maxtro said:
LOL how is that not coming across as a perv?

How about, "So I see you have a pink ass"
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Maybe my biting sarcasm didn't bleed through your computer screen. You just don't comment on the pants.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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It depends on the girl and on you. It's how you say it and the way you are presenting yourself through body language, smirk on your face, and eye contact. Don't be afraid to show your sexuality!
 
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