"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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panosha

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This mainly applies to girls in college

What do you say when you see a girl wearing pants that say "pink" right on her butt?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Axcell

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If you say anything, she may give you a dirty look or call you a "perv." So, don't say anything! Why do guys feel the need to say something based on every little thing they notice!

You could probably think of something ****y/funny to say, but if its with a girl you just met, it may just scare her away.. However, if is with a girl who can take a joke and you have talked to her 1-2 times+ with her, than think of something ****y+funny. I can't think of anything though.
 

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Pretty much, you don't want to come across as a perv. You could just say "hey, I hope that's not the only pink I see on you."
 

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New2Town said:
Pretty much, you don't want to come across as a perv. You could just say "hey, I hope that's not the only pink I see on you."
LOL how is that not coming across as a perv?

How about, "So I see you have a pink ass"
 

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Maxtro said:
LOL how is that not coming across as a perv?

How about, "So I see you have a pink ass"
Maybe my biting sarcasm didn't bleed through your computer screen. You just don't comment on the pants.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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It depends on the girl and on you. It's how you say it and the way you are presenting yourself through body language, smirk on your face, and eye contact. Don't be afraid to show your sexuality!
 
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