"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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quick question

dmoney

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i met this girl and i've been talking to her (flirting with her and what not) she seems to be really into me (applied some kino here and there) and her bday just past and i told her i got something made out of copper (lol was gonna give her a penny but she guessed what it was but i told ehr she was wrong lol) i did it as a joke cuz she gave me gum and told me it was my xmas present.

was wondering should i get her a present for her bday/new years(i was thinking of something small but would be funny/memorable) or should i not get her anything at all?

lol i need a reply in the next 1hr or so lol cuz i'm gonna be seeing her at work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dmoney

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ok so what do i do then to progress the situation?
 

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anyone have any idea where i should take it from here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shaunuk

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Well in the UK we have a 2p coin as well as a 1p (penny), so I'd give her that since she guessed it was a penny :D

Just play it off with a wink, who cares, don't give her anything
 
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