"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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quick question

dmoney

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i met this girl and i've been talking to her (flirting with her and what not) she seems to be really into me (applied some kino here and there) and her bday just past and i told her i got something made out of copper (lol was gonna give her a penny but she guessed what it was but i told ehr she was wrong lol) i did it as a joke cuz she gave me gum and told me it was my xmas present.

was wondering should i get her a present for her bday/new years(i was thinking of something small but would be funny/memorable) or should i not get her anything at all?

lol i need a reply in the next 1hr or so lol cuz i'm gonna be seeing her at work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dmoney

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ok so what do i do then to progress the situation?
 

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anyone have any idea where i should take it from here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shaunuk

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Well in the UK we have a 2p coin as well as a 1p (penny), so I'd give her that since she guessed it was a penny :D

Just play it off with a wink, who cares, don't give her anything
 
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