"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i met this girl and i've been talking to her (flirting with her and what not) she seems to be really into me (applied some kino here and there) and her bday just past and i told her i got something made out of copper (lol was gonna give her a penny but she guessed what it was but i told ehr she was wrong lol) i did it as a joke cuz she gave me gum and told me it was my xmas present.

was wondering should i get her a present for her bday/new years(i was thinking of something small but would be funny/memorable) or should i not get her anything at all?

lol i need a reply in the next 1hr or so lol cuz i'm gonna be seeing her at work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok so what do i do then to progress the situation?
 
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anyone have any idea where i should take it from here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well in the UK we have a 2p coin as well as a 1p (penny), so I'd give her that since she guessed it was a penny :D

Just play it off with a wink, who cares, don't give her anything
 
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