"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MaxPayne

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okay 2 scenarios, diff. gurlz

[#1]
I've added this gurl through myspace nd we've been chatin great for 2 weeks on nd off -i tease have fun- .....today i go like:
Me: "okay i gtg ...hey we've been talkin for a long time now...
Me: "wats ur cell phone?"
her: nooo u call that a long time
her: :p
her: ill give it 2 u when i meet u in the concert..
Me: I remeber SOMEONE said she had BETTER PLANS:rolleyes:
her: if "WE MET"
Me: -inside joke- & go offline
get offline reply back

do i start the convo next time? or ignore her for a week?

the concert is in the first week of Dec.

[#2]
i meet this one through a friend workin in a store, same deal i make fun of her tease her .....she is older by 2 yrz....at the same time i meet her an old friend she knew from school dayz comes in ...he took her number after a week started txtin her....i still were teasin her, somehow her wins her over they start holdin hands around the mall ...i forget bout her ...for like 2 months now havin seen or heard from her!

yesterday she adds me on myspace ....should i say hi how u've been ...or let her start stuff up ....i kinda think she didn like that guy nd wants me now!



okay now just read nd give me ur DJ opinions !!;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Plec07

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For the first one I'd say keep things going as normal, pretend it didn't happen. Sounds like she might be teasing to me if your deffinately meeting her at this concert.

As for the second I'd let her start stuff up. She might have just seen your myspace and thought "oh I know that guy, I'll add him" but isn't actually interested in you. If she is she'll contact you.
 

MaxPayne

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Thnx for all the feedbacks....and anymore will be appreciated!
 

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I would say that the way u asked for her number was quite needy. I like to reverse it, make it look like SHE is asking for MY number. for instance...

HB: something something
Me: oh, i thought u just said that because u wanted my number :O
Hb: oh.. well give it to me then? ;)
Me: oh noo! i dont even know u :O and you're already trying to pick me up? hols your horses there turbo!
Hb: *something* (verrryy emotianally compeled to chase me here)
Me: *give her my number but i leave the last number, to keep up the chase*
Hb: but.. there's only nine didgets, whats the last one??

blabla you get the picture guys.

the other thing u can say is from mystery method i think, very simple: (do this when u have guys is having a FUN discussion, quit when you're at the top like björn borg ;) )

me: i have to go, what can we do to keep this konversation going?
Hb: well, give me your number and i can text u later!
Me: sure, *giving her my number*


hope that can help u man!


// sun
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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For the first girl. Don't contact her until she contacts you. Obviously she wasn't that interested if she didn't give you her number when you asked. Don't play her games....

The second girl... Nothing wrong with some conversation but, if she mentions she has a boyfriend. Walk away and don't look back.
 
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