"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MaxPayne

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okay 2 scenarios, diff. gurlz

[#1]
I've added this gurl through myspace nd we've been chatin great for 2 weeks on nd off -i tease have fun- .....today i go like:
Me: "okay i gtg ...hey we've been talkin for a long time now...
Me: "wats ur cell phone?"
her: nooo u call that a long time
her: :p
her: ill give it 2 u when i meet u in the concert..
Me: I remeber SOMEONE said she had BETTER PLANS:rolleyes:
her: if "WE MET"
Me: -inside joke- & go offline
get offline reply back

do i start the convo next time? or ignore her for a week?

the concert is in the first week of Dec.

[#2]
i meet this one through a friend workin in a store, same deal i make fun of her tease her .....she is older by 2 yrz....at the same time i meet her an old friend she knew from school dayz comes in ...he took her number after a week started txtin her....i still were teasin her, somehow her wins her over they start holdin hands around the mall ...i forget bout her ...for like 2 months now havin seen or heard from her!

yesterday she adds me on myspace ....should i say hi how u've been ...or let her start stuff up ....i kinda think she didn like that guy nd wants me now!



okay now just read nd give me ur DJ opinions !!;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plec07

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For the first one I'd say keep things going as normal, pretend it didn't happen. Sounds like she might be teasing to me if your deffinately meeting her at this concert.

As for the second I'd let her start stuff up. She might have just seen your myspace and thought "oh I know that guy, I'll add him" but isn't actually interested in you. If she is she'll contact you.
 

MaxPayne

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Thnx for all the feedbacks....and anymore will be appreciated!
 

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I would say that the way u asked for her number was quite needy. I like to reverse it, make it look like SHE is asking for MY number. for instance...

HB: something something
Me: oh, i thought u just said that because u wanted my number :O
Hb: oh.. well give it to me then? ;)
Me: oh noo! i dont even know u :O and you're already trying to pick me up? hols your horses there turbo!
Hb: *something* (verrryy emotianally compeled to chase me here)
Me: *give her my number but i leave the last number, to keep up the chase*
Hb: but.. there's only nine didgets, whats the last one??

blabla you get the picture guys.

the other thing u can say is from mystery method i think, very simple: (do this when u have guys is having a FUN discussion, quit when you're at the top like björn borg ;) )

me: i have to go, what can we do to keep this konversation going?
Hb: well, give me your number and i can text u later!
Me: sure, *giving her my number*


hope that can help u man!


// sun
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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For the first girl. Don't contact her until she contacts you. Obviously she wasn't that interested if she didn't give you her number when you asked. Don't play her games....

The second girl... Nothing wrong with some conversation but, if she mentions she has a boyfriend. Walk away and don't look back.
 
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