"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MaxPayne

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okay 2 scenarios, diff. gurlz

[#1]
I've added this gurl through myspace nd we've been chatin great for 2 weeks on nd off -i tease have fun- .....today i go like:
Me: "okay i gtg ...hey we've been talkin for a long time now...
Me: "wats ur cell phone?"
her: nooo u call that a long time
her: :p
her: ill give it 2 u when i meet u in the concert..
Me: I remeber SOMEONE said she had BETTER PLANS:rolleyes:
her: if "WE MET"
Me: -inside joke- & go offline
get offline reply back

do i start the convo next time? or ignore her for a week?

the concert is in the first week of Dec.

[#2]
i meet this one through a friend workin in a store, same deal i make fun of her tease her .....she is older by 2 yrz....at the same time i meet her an old friend she knew from school dayz comes in ...he took her number after a week started txtin her....i still were teasin her, somehow her wins her over they start holdin hands around the mall ...i forget bout her ...for like 2 months now havin seen or heard from her!

yesterday she adds me on myspace ....should i say hi how u've been ...or let her start stuff up ....i kinda think she didn like that guy nd wants me now!



okay now just read nd give me ur DJ opinions !!;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Plec07

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For the first one I'd say keep things going as normal, pretend it didn't happen. Sounds like she might be teasing to me if your deffinately meeting her at this concert.

As for the second I'd let her start stuff up. She might have just seen your myspace and thought "oh I know that guy, I'll add him" but isn't actually interested in you. If she is she'll contact you.
 

MaxPayne

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Thnx for all the feedbacks....and anymore will be appreciated!
 

Sun

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I would say that the way u asked for her number was quite needy. I like to reverse it, make it look like SHE is asking for MY number. for instance...

HB: something something
Me: oh, i thought u just said that because u wanted my number :O
Hb: oh.. well give it to me then? ;)
Me: oh noo! i dont even know u :O and you're already trying to pick me up? hols your horses there turbo!
Hb: *something* (verrryy emotianally compeled to chase me here)
Me: *give her my number but i leave the last number, to keep up the chase*
Hb: but.. there's only nine didgets, whats the last one??

blabla you get the picture guys.

the other thing u can say is from mystery method i think, very simple: (do this when u have guys is having a FUN discussion, quit when you're at the top like björn borg ;) )

me: i have to go, what can we do to keep this konversation going?
Hb: well, give me your number and i can text u later!
Me: sure, *giving her my number*


hope that can help u man!


// sun
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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For the first girl. Don't contact her until she contacts you. Obviously she wasn't that interested if she didn't give you her number when you asked. Don't play her games....

The second girl... Nothing wrong with some conversation but, if she mentions she has a boyfriend. Walk away and don't look back.
 
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