quick question -- Voicemails

[Obsidian]

Hey y'all,
Should you ever leave a voicemail for a girl you #-closed but haven't actually gone on a date with yet? I know girls are really flaky and nervous about initiating phone calls.

I already called this one chick once and didn't get an answer. When I try a second time, I was wondering what to do if she doesn't answer again.

I can't remember if she has my # in her phone; I was a tad drunk at the time.

 

[Randallpink83]

If I haven't even talked to her on the phone yet. Then no I wouldn't leave a voicemail... Can't imagine a girl calling back anyhow so "YOU" can setup a date. ...

Other then that though I believe big time in voicemails, lol.. No matter how trivial the phone call is I expect all my friends to leave a voicemail if they call me (they all know this).. surprisingly it cuts down on trivial calls.. In return I always leave voicemails... But only that circumstance where I haven't made phone contact with a girl yet, i wouldn't leave one. it would short change the interaction. And if you just left a voicemail and never tried calling again I would imagine that would be the end of it... and if you left one and then actually tried calling a few more times another day it could come off as needy.

Keep your chances open, don't leave a voicemail.

 

[Obsidian]

Thanks for the advice, Randall. I think you're probably right.

Fortunately, I got ahold of her on my second attempt (2.5 hours after the first). Coffee date set for Tuesday.