"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quick question to get rid of calls

duttylove

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yo Djs, got a slight problem, my crazy ex will not stop calling me, or texting me or leaving me messages. ive been ignoring her in the hope that shell go away but its not working.

whats my best option, tell her to fvck off or keep ignoring her hoping shell get the hint?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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superchristx

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is this an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?

if its an ex-wife I really think you have to give her proper respect, esp if kids are involved.

If it's an ex-girlfriend, when she calls say **** like "I cant talk now I'm about to have sex" or "I'm going to the massage parlour for a handjob" anyway, every time you talk to her give her something unpleasant to chew on and she'll stop quick. But if you really want her to **** off then have the decency to just say '**** off.'
 

DJ Hawtness

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Dude, it's obvious she needs counseling. :/

Tell her to get a life, or if you're really nasty, say what superchrist posted.

Piss her off by saying you have a girl over right now, and don't want to be bothered.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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When a girl does this it only means one thing, she is beggin for attention. There is only 1 antidote to this which is do the opposite of what she wants you to do. Don't call her back, don't say anything stupid, keep ignoring her. This is the only way to cut this off clean.

btw don't do what the guys above this post said. If you do you are giving her attention. You need to ignore her and move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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