"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

quick question to get rid of calls

duttylove

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
191
Reaction score
0
Location
never never land
yo Djs, got a slight problem, my crazy ex will not stop calling me, or texting me or leaving me messages. ive been ignoring her in the hope that shell go away but its not working.

whats my best option, tell her to fvck off or keep ignoring her hoping shell get the hint?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

superchristx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2004
Messages
216
Reaction score
4
is this an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?

if its an ex-wife I really think you have to give her proper respect, esp if kids are involved.

If it's an ex-girlfriend, when she calls say **** like "I cant talk now I'm about to have sex" or "I'm going to the massage parlour for a handjob" anyway, every time you talk to her give her something unpleasant to chew on and she'll stop quick. But if you really want her to **** off then have the decency to just say '**** off.'
 

DJ Hawtness

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2005
Messages
169
Reaction score
0
Dude, it's obvious she needs counseling. :/

Tell her to get a life, or if you're really nasty, say what superchrist posted.

Piss her off by saying you have a girl over right now, and don't want to be bothered.
 

Joe The Homophobe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2004
Messages
1,212
Reaction score
8
Location
USA
When a girl does this it only means one thing, she is beggin for attention. There is only 1 antidote to this which is do the opposite of what she wants you to do. Don't call her back, don't say anything stupid, keep ignoring her. This is the only way to cut this off clean.

btw don't do what the guys above this post said. If you do you are giving her attention. You need to ignore her and move on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top