"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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quick question to get rid of calls

duttylove

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yo Djs, got a slight problem, my crazy ex will not stop calling me, or texting me or leaving me messages. ive been ignoring her in the hope that shell go away but its not working.

whats my best option, tell her to fvck off or keep ignoring her hoping shell get the hint?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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superchristx

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is this an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?

if its an ex-wife I really think you have to give her proper respect, esp if kids are involved.

If it's an ex-girlfriend, when she calls say **** like "I cant talk now I'm about to have sex" or "I'm going to the massage parlour for a handjob" anyway, every time you talk to her give her something unpleasant to chew on and she'll stop quick. But if you really want her to **** off then have the decency to just say '**** off.'
 

DJ Hawtness

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Dude, it's obvious she needs counseling. :/

Tell her to get a life, or if you're really nasty, say what superchrist posted.

Piss her off by saying you have a girl over right now, and don't want to be bothered.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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When a girl does this it only means one thing, she is beggin for attention. There is only 1 antidote to this which is do the opposite of what she wants you to do. Don't call her back, don't say anything stupid, keep ignoring her. This is the only way to cut this off clean.

btw don't do what the guys above this post said. If you do you are giving her attention. You need to ignore her and move on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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