"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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quick question to get rid of calls

duttylove

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yo Djs, got a slight problem, my crazy ex will not stop calling me, or texting me or leaving me messages. ive been ignoring her in the hope that shell go away but its not working.

whats my best option, tell her to fvck off or keep ignoring her hoping shell get the hint?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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superchristx

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is this an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?

if its an ex-wife I really think you have to give her proper respect, esp if kids are involved.

If it's an ex-girlfriend, when she calls say **** like "I cant talk now I'm about to have sex" or "I'm going to the massage parlour for a handjob" anyway, every time you talk to her give her something unpleasant to chew on and she'll stop quick. But if you really want her to **** off then have the decency to just say '**** off.'
 

DJ Hawtness

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Dude, it's obvious she needs counseling. :/

Tell her to get a life, or if you're really nasty, say what superchrist posted.

Piss her off by saying you have a girl over right now, and don't want to be bothered.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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When a girl does this it only means one thing, she is beggin for attention. There is only 1 antidote to this which is do the opposite of what she wants you to do. Don't call her back, don't say anything stupid, keep ignoring her. This is the only way to cut this off clean.

btw don't do what the guys above this post said. If you do you are giving her attention. You need to ignore her and move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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