"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick Question: Emailing girls?

cefiro

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So, last weekend I went to a party and met this girl who was pretty attractive. We start talking, and eventually we make out. I suggest a change of location, so we take the bus back to campus and head to my dorm room. She seems really interested, so we mess around a little bit. So, when she is headed out, quickly remember I dont even have her phone number. So we exchange numbers (she asked for mine too), and I think that I typed it in incorrectly.

Do you all think it would be alright if I message her over facebook and ask her if the number I have is correct? It doesnt help that the voicemail message just repeats the number and says leave a message (something that isnt typical of 20yr old girls).

I usually hate doing stuff over the internet, but I dont see her often and I dont think she gave me a wrong number.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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trance_addict

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Well if you are pretty sure you got the wrong number, then you really don't have much of a choice (unless you want to wait for her to call you, which is unlikely in most situations)

Did you leave a message? It could just be that she does'nt have a voicemail message set up. If so, give it a week after the voicemail was left, and if she doesn't call you back, then you might want to go the facebook way, if its your only choice.
 

Ace_McGregor

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Message her on facebook and tell her you lost the number. Don't say "Is this number correct?", say something like, "I had a great time the other weekend, I want to give you a call, but I lost your number."
 

mrRuckus

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facebook msg:

"i've been meaning to call you but i wasn't sure if you knew how to use a phone. xxx-xxx-xxxx is your number, right?"

At least i get away with those things. You probably won't.
 
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