"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quick Question: Emailing girls?

cefiro

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So, last weekend I went to a party and met this girl who was pretty attractive. We start talking, and eventually we make out. I suggest a change of location, so we take the bus back to campus and head to my dorm room. She seems really interested, so we mess around a little bit. So, when she is headed out, quickly remember I dont even have her phone number. So we exchange numbers (she asked for mine too), and I think that I typed it in incorrectly.

Do you all think it would be alright if I message her over facebook and ask her if the number I have is correct? It doesnt help that the voicemail message just repeats the number and says leave a message (something that isnt typical of 20yr old girls).

I usually hate doing stuff over the internet, but I dont see her often and I dont think she gave me a wrong number.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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trance_addict

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Well if you are pretty sure you got the wrong number, then you really don't have much of a choice (unless you want to wait for her to call you, which is unlikely in most situations)

Did you leave a message? It could just be that she does'nt have a voicemail message set up. If so, give it a week after the voicemail was left, and if she doesn't call you back, then you might want to go the facebook way, if its your only choice.
 

Ace_McGregor

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Message her on facebook and tell her you lost the number. Don't say "Is this number correct?", say something like, "I had a great time the other weekend, I want to give you a call, but I lost your number."
 

mrRuckus

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facebook msg:

"i've been meaning to call you but i wasn't sure if you knew how to use a phone. xxx-xxx-xxxx is your number, right?"

At least i get away with those things. You probably won't.
 
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