"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quick lil tip I used from this site.

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I was on the ferry from this island and was getting some heavy EC from this girl and she was clearly checkin me out and smiling.

Decided to then chat up with her just starting it off with "Hey what school do you go to?" since there was another school along with part of mine.

Towards the end where our groups had to split it I managed to say "Hey lemme get your number so we can get in contact later" (Yes i know shouldnt have waited till the end) then she says

HB8.5:Hmm I dunno about that
619joe:Why not
HB:How about you give me your number?
619joe:Uhh No
HB:Why not?
619joe:Because thats not how it works.We gotta exchange numbers
HB:Just give me your number
619joe:No listen either we exchange numbers or nothing.
HB:Ok well I guess thats too bad then
619joe:*Laugh* I guess it is too bad then *i walk away*

She ends up calling me back and telling me her number and that was that.It was a real number too as i figured out few days after while calling her so there was a clear textbook example of the **** test.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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:)

Good job my man.
We all appreciate your expirience sharing :)
 
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how did she call you back without you giving up your number?
 
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619joe

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It was more of us just mutually looking back at eachother after splitting apart and her saying "Ok my number is ..."

I gotta admit though I thought it was going down the drain after I said well thats too bad and started walking away.

The thing I love the most about this is bunch of my friends saw me do this so I dont regret not getting it earlier.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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