"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Quick lil tip I used from this site.

619joe

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I was on the ferry from this island and was getting some heavy EC from this girl and she was clearly checkin me out and smiling.

Decided to then chat up with her just starting it off with "Hey what school do you go to?" since there was another school along with part of mine.

Towards the end where our groups had to split it I managed to say "Hey lemme get your number so we can get in contact later" (Yes i know shouldnt have waited till the end) then she says

HB8.5:Hmm I dunno about that
619joe:Why not
HB:How about you give me your number?
619joe:Uhh No
HB:Why not?
619joe:Because thats not how it works.We gotta exchange numbers
HB:Just give me your number
619joe:No listen either we exchange numbers or nothing.
HB:Ok well I guess thats too bad then
619joe:*Laugh* I guess it is too bad then *i walk away*

She ends up calling me back and telling me her number and that was that.It was a real number too as i figured out few days after while calling her so there was a clear textbook example of the **** test.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ascalon

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:)

Good job my man.
We all appreciate your expirience sharing :)
 

mpimpin

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how did she call you back without you giving up your number?
 

619joe

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It was more of us just mutually looking back at eachother after splitting apart and her saying "Ok my number is ..."

I gotta admit though I thought it was going down the drain after I said well thats too bad and started walking away.

The thing I love the most about this is bunch of my friends saw me do this so I dont regret not getting it earlier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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