"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick lil tip I used from this site.

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619joe

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I was on the ferry from this island and was getting some heavy EC from this girl and she was clearly checkin me out and smiling.

Decided to then chat up with her just starting it off with "Hey what school do you go to?" since there was another school along with part of mine.

Towards the end where our groups had to split it I managed to say "Hey lemme get your number so we can get in contact later" (Yes i know shouldnt have waited till the end) then she says

HB8.5:Hmm I dunno about that
619joe:Why not
HB:How about you give me your number?
619joe:Uhh No
HB:Why not?
619joe:Because thats not how it works.We gotta exchange numbers
HB:Just give me your number
619joe:No listen either we exchange numbers or nothing.
HB:Ok well I guess thats too bad then
619joe:*Laugh* I guess it is too bad then *i walk away*

She ends up calling me back and telling me her number and that was that.It was a real number too as i figured out few days after while calling her so there was a clear textbook example of the **** test.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:)

Good job my man.
We all appreciate your expirience sharing :)
 
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how did she call you back without you giving up your number?
 
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619joe

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It was more of us just mutually looking back at eachother after splitting apart and her saying "Ok my number is ..."

I gotta admit though I thought it was going down the drain after I said well thats too bad and started walking away.

The thing I love the most about this is bunch of my friends saw me do this so I dont regret not getting it earlier.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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