"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quick lesson on patience and desperation.

Purefilth

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Just over 3 weeks ago - I pulled a chick, number grab- kiss closed. Set up a date on the 14th, kiss close. She told me she had fun, thanked me for the day. (only spent an hour on her though - this is the "get to know you") Kept it light and fun, dropped her off home.

She seemed keen at the time.

Since then I didnt contact her, I have other plates and work on so extra plates just arent a priority.

She pulled in contact today, still keen and not at all upset that she'd been set back as a low priority, didn't feel snubbed and I set up another meet for next week. (she is awarei am a busy man and my time is valuable.)



Sosuave taught me that the girl should be the one to initiate as much as possible. ESPECIALLY AFTER THE FIRST DATE. (Now I never initiate after the first meet - If they dont come for it then someone else gets the D)

Sosuave taught me to spin plates and not to worry about the girls because they will come.

Sosuave taught me to use the telephone to set up dates and dont waste time trying to charm or entertain via text.


Sosuave was right on all three points.

Her hamster spun enough over two weeks wondering why I hadnt chased until she gave in and had to find out if I would come and smash her back doors in.

Fortunately for her - I am quite happy to do so.



Utilise what youve learnt here boys.

peace.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nice one.

Yeah, I think I'm pretty much done making first contact after the first date.
 

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Update - Didnt contact her until yesterday (the day of) and that was just a quick confirmation txt saying "Ill be at yours around 6".

She says cool, Therefore I'm not wasting time and she's still keen.


More proof that running it "Textbook DonJuan" is productive.

No trying to charm her over the phone - short and sweet, less is more and let my winning personality and powerful smile do the work for me in person.

Stay strong, keep the phone on a tight leash.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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