Before I begin , this thread is not for those that just want to spin plates for life , those who have experience with LTR feel free to respond.
I have noticed a HEAVY flaw in my game that I need help fixing. To begin , I have zero problems attracting girls ,or keeping girls. The only problem comes when I actually LIKE the girl.
This year I decided to stay relationship free after my failed 4 year relationship. I can tell all my plates have very high interest. I recently met this girl during the summer and I actually fell for her.
For some reason I can't seem to give her the same treatment as my plates , I try but I just keep reverting back to making simple mistakes.
At this point I believe the only thing holding any attraction I'm her eyes is the fact that during the week I'm working 12 hours then I head to the gym after so she doesn't get to text me down or call me.
When we meet in person , everything is smooth and she always have a great time each time around.
Now the reason I'm opening this thread now is the fact that I made the ultimate AFC move last night , I went to the strip club with some buddies , drank and when she called I picked up. This was around 1 am , when I hung up the phone it was 4am !
I woke up this morning with a msg from her talking about how she enjoyed the convoy last night. I have just went ghost on her for now till I can get help with this situation. I'm far from needy but she seems to bring the AFC in me , which is not a state I ever want to be in again. I also see her as a potential GF so I don't wanna fuvjk this up.
I believe being able to spot my problems is a good start but how do I counter this ? And don't say spin plates , I have other girls that I have yet to reply to their messages and I feel no way but when it comes to her , I feel bad not replying.
I have noticed a HEAVY flaw in my game that I need help fixing. To begin , I have zero problems attracting girls ,or keeping girls. The only problem comes when I actually LIKE the girl.
This year I decided to stay relationship free after my failed 4 year relationship. I can tell all my plates have very high interest. I recently met this girl during the summer and I actually fell for her.
For some reason I can't seem to give her the same treatment as my plates , I try but I just keep reverting back to making simple mistakes.
At this point I believe the only thing holding any attraction I'm her eyes is the fact that during the week I'm working 12 hours then I head to the gym after so she doesn't get to text me down or call me.
When we meet in person , everything is smooth and she always have a great time each time around.
Now the reason I'm opening this thread now is the fact that I made the ultimate AFC move last night , I went to the strip club with some buddies , drank and when she called I picked up. This was around 1 am , when I hung up the phone it was 4am !
I woke up this morning with a msg from her talking about how she enjoyed the convoy last night. I have just went ghost on her for now till I can get help with this situation. I'm far from needy but she seems to bring the AFC in me , which is not a state I ever want to be in again. I also see her as a potential GF so I don't wanna fuvjk this up.
I believe being able to spot my problems is a good start but how do I counter this ? And don't say spin plates , I have other girls that I have yet to reply to their messages and I feel no way but when it comes to her , I feel bad not replying.
