Background: There's a girl I like I keep seeing in the halls. We barely know each other, besides having practiced for a stage show. We didn't really talk to each other. The show ended a a couple of weeks ago. I keep seeing her in the halls and keep getting strong eye contact, and some quick hi's if we pass each other. I only see her once per day, in a crowded, stampeding hallway. I'm leaning toward stopping her, asking her how she's doing and (no transition) straight for the number. Any good/better ways of doing this? This is the most foolproof idea I have.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Quick Hall pickup
- Thread starter Dimehair
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jeffthechef
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never go straight to number close if you've never talked before...no matter how sure you are she may be interested...i wouldn't advise it
once you're nearby...say hi...ask her how's it going....a little kino of any sort...tell her you have to go bla bla and leave
THEN
the next time you see her....say hi...drop a line/joke/something interesting...ask her what she's doing this weekend...then say
(got this from a thread a while back)
“I need to get going, let me give you a call sometime…what’s your number?”
you're leaving so it's not as intrusive..."let me"=assume the sale..."what's your" rather than "can i have" ..demand don't ask
but of course you don't say it like a ****
MAKE SURE YOU STAY SILENT AFTER...if you don't get the number..move on of course
once you're nearby...say hi...ask her how's it going....a little kino of any sort...tell her you have to go bla bla and leave
THEN
the next time you see her....say hi...drop a line/joke/something interesting...ask her what she's doing this weekend...then say
(got this from a thread a while back)
“I need to get going, let me give you a call sometime…what’s your number?”
you're leaving so it's not as intrusive..."let me"=assume the sale..."what's your" rather than "can i have" ..demand don't ask
but of course you don't say it like a ****
MAKE SURE YOU STAY SILENT AFTER...if you don't get the number..move on of course
I saw the girl again today. It wasn't in the hall, it was during a free period. I saw her sitting with a friend and I sat at their table before I could stop myself. I didn't really talk though. I said a few things (not completely silent). Customary how are yous, even joined in the convo for few VERY brief minutes. I used my homework as crutch: a reason not to talk. The friend tried to include me in the conversation toward the beginning of the interaction, but after quick answers I went back to my book. I joined their conversation on and off, and came in with something I thought was interesting when they were both silent. They liked it, and their conversation picked up again. Even though they talked amongst themselves a lot, whenever I had something to say they both turned to me, even stopping whatever they were just talking about. Although they didn't ask me a lot of questions (which I liked), I felt that they wanted me to join in the conversation. I see myself as more talkative than I was today. Both girls now think of me as shy, which doesn't mean I'll hang myself, but I could have made a better impression. It might bebackwards rationalization, but the period before I stayed quiet the entire time in a class I usually goof in. Oh well. Live and learn.
coolf1r3
Don Juan
Haha, those three words have gotten me through some really tough times. I consider it my mantra and you should to. It'll keep you going in the toughest of times.Dimehair said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
OTB
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Bro, that's absolutely amazing!Dimehair said:
That means that (unlike many other forum members on this site),
you're brain was somehow subconsiously re-wiring itself in order to help you get the pvssy without even thinking about it!
That's a huge advantage!
Someway, somehow, you were able to quickly remove the mental blocks that prevent man men from actually approaching the girl....
There's great hope for you later on in the game my brother
