Background: There's a girl I like I keep seeing in the halls. We barely know each other, besides having practiced for a stage show. We didn't really talk to each other. The show ended a a couple of weeks ago. I keep seeing her in the halls and keep getting strong eye contact, and some quick hi's if we pass each other. I only see her once per day, in a crowded, stampeding hallway. I'm leaning toward stopping her, asking her how she's doing and (no transition) straight for the number. Any good/better ways of doing this? This is the most foolproof idea I have.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jeffthechef
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never go straight to number close if you've never talked before...no matter how sure you are she may be interested...i wouldn't advise it
once you're nearby...say hi...ask her how's it going....a little kino of any sort...tell her you have to go bla bla and leave
THEN
the next time you see her....say hi...drop a line/joke/something interesting...ask her what she's doing this weekend...then say
(got this from a thread a while back)
“I need to get going, let me give you a call sometime…what’s your number?”
you're leaving so it's not as intrusive..."let me"=assume the sale..."what's your" rather than "can i have" ..demand don't ask
but of course you don't say it like a ****
MAKE SURE YOU STAY SILENT AFTER...if you don't get the number..move on of course
once you're nearby...say hi...ask her how's it going....a little kino of any sort...tell her you have to go bla bla and leave
THEN
the next time you see her....say hi...drop a line/joke/something interesting...ask her what she's doing this weekend...then say
(got this from a thread a while back)
“I need to get going, let me give you a call sometime…what’s your number?”
you're leaving so it's not as intrusive..."let me"=assume the sale..."what's your" rather than "can i have" ..demand don't ask
but of course you don't say it like a ****
MAKE SURE YOU STAY SILENT AFTER...if you don't get the number..move on of course
I saw the girl again today. It wasn't in the hall, it was during a free period. I saw her sitting with a friend and I sat at their table before I could stop myself. I didn't really talk though. I said a few things (not completely silent). Customary how are yous, even joined in the convo for few VERY brief minutes. I used my homework as crutch: a reason not to talk. The friend tried to include me in the conversation toward the beginning of the interaction, but after quick answers I went back to my book. I joined their conversation on and off, and came in with something I thought was interesting when they were both silent. They liked it, and their conversation picked up again. Even though they talked amongst themselves a lot, whenever I had something to say they both turned to me, even stopping whatever they were just talking about. Although they didn't ask me a lot of questions (which I liked), I felt that they wanted me to join in the conversation. I see myself as more talkative than I was today. Both girls now think of me as shy, which doesn't mean I'll hang myself, but I could have made a better impression. It might bebackwards rationalization, but the period before I stayed quiet the entire time in a class I usually goof in. Oh well. Live and learn.
coolf1r3
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Haha, those three words have gotten me through some really tough times. I consider it my mantra and you should to. It'll keep you going in the toughest of times.Dimehair said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OTB
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Bro, that's absolutely amazing!Dimehair said:
That means that (unlike many other forum members on this site),
you're brain was somehow subconsiously re-wiring itself in order to help you get the pvssy without even thinking about it!
That's a huge advantage!
Someway, somehow, you were able to quickly remove the mental blocks that prevent man men from actually approaching the girl....
There's great hope for you later on in the game my brother
