"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JohnChops

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Went out last night to grab some sushi after a bbq *weird right? **** it lol). started the night with a dude waiter then all of a suddend some cute chick came to bring us our meals. So her shirt had some sexual inuedno on it, but it was made specifically for this sushi place , a work shiRt.

I flirted with her and just talked for a little bit, good amount of eye contact. She got on the subject of why guys using pick up lines and how they'll always be single (lol) so I said she's never heard mine before.

I said just kidding I didn't have any, she went to grab me a water and I said "oh wait I do have a pick up line, put your number in my phone"

She looked so shocked, like this has never been said to her before. She specifically told me she put her last name and that she liked how direct I was.

Overall not a bad night out for sushi.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sushi after a BBQ...? You fat sh!t :rolleyes:

Good work on the direct approach. It's my MO these days. Women don't like betas who f*ck about 'getting to know them' for hours. That's what dates are for. Good form Sir.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Sushi after a BBQ...? You fat sh!t :rolleyes:

Good work on the direct approach. It's my MO these days. Women don't like betas who f*ck about 'getting to know them' for hours. That's what dates are for. Good form Sir.

Granted it was a few hours later, but god damn it was tasty!!!!

Ya **** it, i used to try to have convos for a bit longer back in the day but I dont have time for that crap, get thenumber, wait a few days, text, set up the date, silence, then use the date to get to know her.

It doesnt make sense that you text a girl 24/7, then guys wonder why they A) Don't want to go out on a date with them or B) they go on the date and they have no idea what to talk about!

@LastofTheAlphas thanks brotha. gonna add her to the stable.
 

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Aaaaah, the ole "put your number in my phone" trick. That shît works. Even if they weren't interested, they always obliged to that tactic. They've got your phone in their hand and they can't say no hahah.

Let us know how it turns out.
 

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VladPatton said:
Aaaaah, the ole "put your number in my phone" trick. That shît works. Even if they weren't interested, they always obliged to that tactic. They've got your phone in their hand and they can't say no hahah.

Let us know how it turns out.

I presented my phone and she just grabbed it out of my hands lol

I remember doing it to some random girl who clearly wasn't interested, she put her number in there after so many damn questions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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