"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Questions that make me uncomfortable

Pureafc

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Most girls(hot or not) whom I always engaged in convesation seem to ask me this question, " So what do you do during your free time?" I normally replied with like hanging out with my male buddies , chit chatting , window shopping and stuff like that. And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?" I hate it whenever i get caught in that. It makes me insecure thinking i am a sort of player which in fact i am not cuz I yet to get laid!:crazy: I don't really know how to answer this one back like a true DJ who maintains his composure and keep his cool whenever he encountered an uncomfortable situation like that. Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? " ? Damn, it sucks.:whistle: How am i suppose to respond to that? Are these all TESTS given by women who wants to see how much of a man I am?:moon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pureafc said:
And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?"

Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? "
Your answer to both question? YES

Scottfall explains it well.
 

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Why would you be embarrassed about girls thinking youre a player? Get some balls, kid.
 

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if a girl thinks that other girls like you that will build value. she will then think she should be getting with you too since other women are. nothing turns a woman on more than when another woman has the man that is in her sights.

the best luck i've ever had is when there are 2 or 3 girls around that want me. they will try about 10x harder to get me. it's been years since then though, i forget what it's like for a woman to want me, hahah
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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