"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most girls(hot or not) whom I always engaged in convesation seem to ask me this question, " So what do you do during your free time?" I normally replied with like hanging out with my male buddies , chit chatting , window shopping and stuff like that. And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?" I hate it whenever i get caught in that. It makes me insecure thinking i am a sort of player which in fact i am not cuz I yet to get laid!:crazy: I don't really know how to answer this one back like a true DJ who maintains his composure and keep his cool whenever he encountered an uncomfortable situation like that. Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? " ? Damn, it sucks.:whistle: How am i suppose to respond to that? Are these all TESTS given by women who wants to see how much of a man I am?:moon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pureafc said:
And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?"

Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? "
Your answer to both question? YES

Scottfall explains it well.
 

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Why would you be embarrassed about girls thinking youre a player? Get some balls, kid.
 

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if a girl thinks that other girls like you that will build value. she will then think she should be getting with you too since other women are. nothing turns a woman on more than when another woman has the man that is in her sights.

the best luck i've ever had is when there are 2 or 3 girls around that want me. they will try about 10x harder to get me. it's been years since then though, i forget what it's like for a woman to want me, hahah
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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