"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Questions that make me uncomfortable

Pureafc

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Most girls(hot or not) whom I always engaged in convesation seem to ask me this question, " So what do you do during your free time?" I normally replied with like hanging out with my male buddies , chit chatting , window shopping and stuff like that. And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?" I hate it whenever i get caught in that. It makes me insecure thinking i am a sort of player which in fact i am not cuz I yet to get laid!:crazy: I don't really know how to answer this one back like a true DJ who maintains his composure and keep his cool whenever he encountered an uncomfortable situation like that. Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? " ? Damn, it sucks.:whistle: How am i suppose to respond to that? Are these all TESTS given by women who wants to see how much of a man I am?:moon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pureafc said:
And they would almost always say back," Yeah right , and spending time looking at pretty sexy women all the time"?You like it right?"

Another question which girls normally ask me is " Hey , what do you think of that chick over there ? She is so sexy right? What do you think? "
Your answer to both question? YES

Scottfall explains it well.
 

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Why would you be embarrassed about girls thinking youre a player? Get some balls, kid.
 

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if a girl thinks that other girls like you that will build value. she will then think she should be getting with you too since other women are. nothing turns a woman on more than when another woman has the man that is in her sights.

the best luck i've ever had is when there are 2 or 3 girls around that want me. they will try about 10x harder to get me. it's been years since then though, i forget what it's like for a woman to want me, hahah
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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