"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey, I'm new to the don juan forums.. I used to not believe in sites like sosuave.com I used to think these sites were for the weak.. "an easy lay" but now I see it differently.. anyway, I have a question. I'm alright at picking up girls.. thankfully I'm not as ugly as a lot of dudes trying to pick up chicks, so I take that as a "crutch" to picking up chicks. Well, the question I have for the real Don Juan's is... does flattering a chick with words like. ."precious", "gorgeous", and "beautiful" work?.. see, I was with some of my homeboys the other day at taco bell (munchies) and I saw this skinny little white kid come up to the girl running the register and he was like.. "Hey gorgeous, how about if I let you talk to me you hook me up with a taco?" and she smiled and kept on with her work. this girl wasn't bad I mean.. a 7/8, surprising hu? when do you see one of those working at taco bell, anyways.. 5 minutes later the girl comes to where the dude was sitting and she gives him a taco and from that point on I don't remember much, I just remember that the girl was really interested.. just wondering if this approach might work
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Words from a non-pro:
It's mostly about delivery.
If you can pull something off with those words, hey they're just words use em to your advantage.

That kid sounds like he said something to the register girl that customers/guys probably never say to her.. so she was interested.

haha that was pretty clever... he sounds like he's interested in the taco lol.
 

War Against Betaism

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There's really nothing wrong with flattery. The problem most men face with flattery is that they sound needy, try to be slick, and use it as a weapon to help them get at a women. If you demonstrate that you're a sexual partner worthy of sleeping with, then flattery will work if not abused.

That skinny white kid must have played it off real smooth. By calling her gorgeous, he conveyed she was someone worthy of talking to, boosting her value. He then elevated his value above hers by telling her she'll be worthy of talking to him if she does something for him. Though I doubt this was a cold approach, that skinny white kid probably knows the cashier or has mad social value.
 
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