Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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questions for the pros

lu_is

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Hey, I'm new to the don juan forums.. I used to not believe in sites like sosuave.com I used to think these sites were for the weak.. "an easy lay" but now I see it differently.. anyway, I have a question. I'm alright at picking up girls.. thankfully I'm not as ugly as a lot of dudes trying to pick up chicks, so I take that as a "crutch" to picking up chicks. Well, the question I have for the real Don Juan's is... does flattering a chick with words like. ."precious", "gorgeous", and "beautiful" work?.. see, I was with some of my homeboys the other day at taco bell (munchies) and I saw this skinny little white kid come up to the girl running the register and he was like.. "Hey gorgeous, how about if I let you talk to me you hook me up with a taco?" and she smiled and kept on with her work. this girl wasn't bad I mean.. a 7/8, surprising hu? when do you see one of those working at taco bell, anyways.. 5 minutes later the girl comes to where the dude was sitting and she gives him a taco and from that point on I don't remember much, I just remember that the girl was really interested.. just wondering if this approach might work
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Words from a non-pro:
It's mostly about delivery.
If you can pull something off with those words, hey they're just words use em to your advantage.

That kid sounds like he said something to the register girl that customers/guys probably never say to her.. so she was interested.

haha that was pretty clever... he sounds like he's interested in the taco lol.
 

War Against Betaism

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There's really nothing wrong with flattery. The problem most men face with flattery is that they sound needy, try to be slick, and use it as a weapon to help them get at a women. If you demonstrate that you're a sexual partner worthy of sleeping with, then flattery will work if not abused.

That skinny white kid must have played it off real smooth. By calling her gorgeous, he conveyed she was someone worthy of talking to, boosting her value. He then elevated his value above hers by telling her she'll be worthy of talking to him if she does something for him. Though I doubt this was a cold approach, that skinny white kid probably knows the cashier or has mad social value.
 
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