"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey, I'm new to the don juan forums.. I used to not believe in sites like sosuave.com I used to think these sites were for the weak.. "an easy lay" but now I see it differently.. anyway, I have a question. I'm alright at picking up girls.. thankfully I'm not as ugly as a lot of dudes trying to pick up chicks, so I take that as a "crutch" to picking up chicks. Well, the question I have for the real Don Juan's is... does flattering a chick with words like. ."precious", "gorgeous", and "beautiful" work?.. see, I was with some of my homeboys the other day at taco bell (munchies) and I saw this skinny little white kid come up to the girl running the register and he was like.. "Hey gorgeous, how about if I let you talk to me you hook me up with a taco?" and she smiled and kept on with her work. this girl wasn't bad I mean.. a 7/8, surprising hu? when do you see one of those working at taco bell, anyways.. 5 minutes later the girl comes to where the dude was sitting and she gives him a taco and from that point on I don't remember much, I just remember that the girl was really interested.. just wondering if this approach might work
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Words from a non-pro:
It's mostly about delivery.
If you can pull something off with those words, hey they're just words use em to your advantage.

That kid sounds like he said something to the register girl that customers/guys probably never say to her.. so she was interested.

haha that was pretty clever... he sounds like he's interested in the taco lol.
 

War Against Betaism

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There's really nothing wrong with flattery. The problem most men face with flattery is that they sound needy, try to be slick, and use it as a weapon to help them get at a women. If you demonstrate that you're a sexual partner worthy of sleeping with, then flattery will work if not abused.

That skinny white kid must have played it off real smooth. By calling her gorgeous, he conveyed she was someone worthy of talking to, boosting her value. He then elevated his value above hers by telling her she'll be worthy of talking to him if she does something for him. Though I doubt this was a cold approach, that skinny white kid probably knows the cashier or has mad social value.
 
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