"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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questions about ovulation and period

Jay-X

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hi everybody. my girlfriend should have had her period more than a week ago. a couple of days before the expected day, she told me that she felt like she was about to be on her period, but then just a really little of blood has come out of her. she says that it can't be her period and that's just ovulation.
is it possible that a woman ovulates 25 days after her last period?! doesn't the ovulation happen like 14 days after or so?
consider that she's always been irregular and she's just 16 years old.
is it common for a teenager to completely skip her period? it never happened to her (at least, not in the last year, from what i know). she's just a little bit overweight (not fat at all), but she eats reaaaaaally little (i'm worried that she's becoming anorexic), can this influence her period?

i'd like to know another thing:

last time we had vaginal sex, she was on her last period and i was wearing a condom (it didn't broke, i know since i checked out before throwing it away). this month we had unprotected anal sex a dozen times, but i always came inside her. do you think that there is some chance that she may have gotten pregnant? i don't think so, but you are never sure
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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flyinshark

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Sometimes a tiny little drop of sperm can come in contact with the vagina and it can be enough to get a girl pregnant. Also, from what i know, when a girl does not have her period at all, it means that she could be pregnant. I know you tried your best at avoiding this, and i hope she doesn't get pregnant now, at 16.

Tell her to go see her doctor or a pharmacist and talk about it. They could help her better than most (if not all) people on this board.
 

apache

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A symptom of Anorexia nervosa is a girls menstrual cycle stopping, so you may want to look into this as being the problem if you seriosuly think she's becoming anorexic.
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by apache
A symptom of Anorexia nervosa is a girls menstrual cycle stopping, so you may want to look into this as being the problem if you seriosuly think she's becoming anorexic.
On the other hand, if this is the case there is less chance of an accident occuring taking your risky behaviour.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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