"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Never tell her you want her. Ask her to go on a date, if accepts great, apply your kino moves. Pretty sure you know this already.
 
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I'm gonna experiment on it . Idc of the outcome. There are a couple of chicks that I'm gonna try it and I'll post a report .

I need only some help of which is the most alpha way to do it. Any ideas that you would try to use yourself?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KingofPuss said:
It depends on the woman. Sometimes if the tension is really high and you say that, her panties will get soaked. Or she'll straight up attack you.

For the masses of women, I would avoid saying this. It usually works with more conservative chicks.
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What would you suggest me to say when such situation comes?
 
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NSX-R said:
Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
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Ask her out on date. She will know you are interested then. Now ons I wouldn't try would come across as creepy.
 
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Why would you think that female psychology is any different with her? Is she "special?" Maybe she could be "the one!"

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
 
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