"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Never tell her you want her. Ask her to go on a date, if accepts great, apply your kino moves. Pretty sure you know this already.
 
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I'm gonna experiment on it . Idc of the outcome. There are a couple of chicks that I'm gonna try it and I'll post a report .

I need only some help of which is the most alpha way to do it. Any ideas that you would try to use yourself?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KingofPuss said:
It depends on the woman. Sometimes if the tension is really high and you say that, her panties will get soaked. Or she'll straight up attack you.

For the masses of women, I would avoid saying this. It usually works with more conservative chicks.
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What would you suggest me to say when such situation comes?
 
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NSX-R said:
Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
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Ask her out on date. She will know you are interested then. Now ons I wouldn't try would come across as creepy.
 
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Why would you think that female psychology is any different with her? Is she "special?" Maybe she could be "the one!"

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
 
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