"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never tell her you want her. Ask her to go on a date, if accepts great, apply your kino moves. Pretty sure you know this already.
 

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I'm gonna experiment on it . Idc of the outcome. There are a couple of chicks that I'm gonna try it and I'll post a report .

I need only some help of which is the most alpha way to do it. Any ideas that you would try to use yourself?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It depends on the woman. Sometimes if the tension is really high and you say that, her panties will get soaked. Or she'll straight up attack you.

For the masses of women, I would avoid saying this. It usually works with more conservative chicks.
What would you suggest me to say when such situation comes?
 

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Meanwhile i believe actions talk better and have bigger impact than words i was thinking a bit recently.

For the last 1 and half year i had more chicks than all of my friends gfs combined in their lifetime and more than i believed i would had for my whole life.

The trick i used till now was kino. Kino is the door for everything. I was seeing a chick i was interested to , approached and depending on the sexual tension and the info that i had till one point , i was going for either ons or just for the number. When i was going for ONS i was trying to separate us from the crowd , heavy escalation and later somewhere close that we can fck.

When i was going for the number , i was writing a message for when we can meet with the chick and during the date i was escalating again heavily.

All this time i have never said to a chick that i want her before we escalate sexualy .
Now this worked only with chicks i had just met and they never were part of my social circle.

Here is the question. If there is a chick that it's part of your circle and she knows you very well, confessing that you want her (like " You know what? I want you" ) is it gonna seem weird or creepy to her? Does this also sound needy? How can you verbalise that you want to do something with her without seeming needy and creepy?

I want your thoughts about it.
Ask her out on date. She will know you are interested then. Now ons I wouldn't try would come across as creepy.
 

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Why would you think that female psychology is any different with her? Is she "special?" Maybe she could be "the one!"

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
 
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