CP3WOO
Don Juan
How do I get a girl to like me if she's catholic and I'm baptist? Any ideas? I mean, she seems interested, but I think she doesn't want to get involved since I'm not catholic.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
amoka
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How about "discussing the bible together"? No matter what denomination she may be, as long as you both use the bible, you can bring up the idea of discussing the bible together. First of all, I would tease her of not know enough about the bible. (Remember, you must be good at it yourself or know better than she.) If she is more knowledgeable about the bible than you, well, you can alway "take a lesson" from her.