CP3WOO
Don Juan
How do I get a girl to like me if she's catholic and I'm baptist? Any ideas? I mean, she seems interested, but I think she doesn't want to get involved since I'm not catholic.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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How about "discussing the bible together"? No matter what denomination she may be, as long as you both use the bible, you can bring up the idea of discussing the bible together. First of all, I would tease her of not know enough about the bible. (Remember, you must be good at it yourself or know better than she.) If she is more knowledgeable about the bible than you, well, you can alway "take a lesson" from her.