CP3WOO
Don Juan
How do I get a girl to like me if she's catholic and I'm baptist? Any ideas? I mean, she seems interested, but I think she doesn't want to get involved since I'm not catholic.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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How about "discussing the bible together"? No matter what denomination she may be, as long as you both use the bible, you can bring up the idea of discussing the bible together. First of all, I would tease her of not know enough about the bible. (Remember, you must be good at it yourself or know better than she.) If she is more knowledgeable about the bible than you, well, you can alway "take a lesson" from her.