"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xi phi pi

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A little background...I have a gf and we've been going out for a while now. Things are great (yeah, its just the start, I know) and we are good together. Here's the thing...

Yeah, I get hj's from her almost everytime we are together and I feel and suck her breasts, and we dry hump, but there isn't anything more then that. I used to finger her over her pants and then she said "lets take a step back because we've only been going out a month and a half. I don't want to go as far as you probably do." I obviously want sex.

I also started to get feelings of wanting to go after other girls just for sex. I have never cheated before and don't really want to. I also don't want to dump this girl either JUST because she won't put out.

Any advice for a f*cking confused dude would help...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fabrizio

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i think thats pretty straight bro, i mean on average she is putting out more for the time you been together then most girls, so dont get desperate, just have patience, the time will come, just continue on what you are doing and progress little by little.
 

Jerky Boi

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I'd have to agree. You're getting a lot more than a lot of other guys who have gf's right now so I wouldn't try to rush into things. After a while, I'm pretty sure it'll come up again and it'll happen. Just give it some more time.
 

xi phi pi

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Thanks so far guys...I guess I was a little spoiled before because the past two gfs, we had sex in a week. Also, this isn't the first time I've dated her and she is a "good girl" who is saving it until marriage (according to her).
 
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