"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xi phi pi

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A little background...I have a gf and we've been going out for a while now. Things are great (yeah, its just the start, I know) and we are good together. Here's the thing...

Yeah, I get hj's from her almost everytime we are together and I feel and suck her breasts, and we dry hump, but there isn't anything more then that. I used to finger her over her pants and then she said "lets take a step back because we've only been going out a month and a half. I don't want to go as far as you probably do." I obviously want sex.

I also started to get feelings of wanting to go after other girls just for sex. I have never cheated before and don't really want to. I also don't want to dump this girl either JUST because she won't put out.

Any advice for a f*cking confused dude would help...
 

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Fabrizio

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i think thats pretty straight bro, i mean on average she is putting out more for the time you been together then most girls, so dont get desperate, just have patience, the time will come, just continue on what you are doing and progress little by little.
 

Jerky Boi

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I'd have to agree. You're getting a lot more than a lot of other guys who have gf's right now so I wouldn't try to rush into things. After a while, I'm pretty sure it'll come up again and it'll happen. Just give it some more time.
 

xi phi pi

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Thanks so far guys...I guess I was a little spoiled before because the past two gfs, we had sex in a week. Also, this isn't the first time I've dated her and she is a "good girl" who is saving it until marriage (according to her).
 
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