"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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question with advice needed

xi phi pi

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A little background...I have a gf and we've been going out for a while now. Things are great (yeah, its just the start, I know) and we are good together. Here's the thing...

Yeah, I get hj's from her almost everytime we are together and I feel and suck her breasts, and we dry hump, but there isn't anything more then that. I used to finger her over her pants and then she said "lets take a step back because we've only been going out a month and a half. I don't want to go as far as you probably do." I obviously want sex.

I also started to get feelings of wanting to go after other girls just for sex. I have never cheated before and don't really want to. I also don't want to dump this girl either JUST because she won't put out.

Any advice for a f*cking confused dude would help...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fabrizio

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i think thats pretty straight bro, i mean on average she is putting out more for the time you been together then most girls, so dont get desperate, just have patience, the time will come, just continue on what you are doing and progress little by little.
 

Jerky Boi

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I'd have to agree. You're getting a lot more than a lot of other guys who have gf's right now so I wouldn't try to rush into things. After a while, I'm pretty sure it'll come up again and it'll happen. Just give it some more time.
 

xi phi pi

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Thanks so far guys...I guess I was a little spoiled before because the past two gfs, we had sex in a week. Also, this isn't the first time I've dated her and she is a "good girl" who is saving it until marriage (according to her).
 
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