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Is getting married and having a family the way to go to a happy old age situation, with your adult kids to take care of you?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
question: who wants to die alone?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Planning your life based on what you ASSUME other people will do is the domain of fools.
Getting married out of fear is common, but its also retarded. Getting married guarantees absolutely nothing. Divorce is common and kids can grow up to be losers or a*sholes.
You have zero control over other people. You can only control yourself. Other people cannot make you happy either.
If you get married it needs to make logical sense. There are few situations where it does. Most people do it because they perceive it as "secure". However, the fact that people are emotional and unpredictable ensures there is nothing secure about getting married or starting a family in reality.
There are NO guarantees in life not matter what path you choose. So learn to accept that and you will make much smarter life choices.
Getting married out of fear is common, but its also retarded. Getting married guarantees absolutely nothing. Divorce is common and kids can grow up to be losers or a*sholes.
You have zero control over other people. You can only control yourself. Other people cannot make you happy either.
If you get married it needs to make logical sense. There are few situations where it does. Most people do it because they perceive it as "secure". However, the fact that people are emotional and unpredictable ensures there is nothing secure about getting married or starting a family in reality.
There are NO guarantees in life not matter what path you choose. So learn to accept that and you will make much smarter life choices.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Everyone dies alone. Having a wife and kids only means you will not be able to save anything for your retirement. In the day it was worth it for a man to get married and have a family, because you received respect. You were king of your household and you were appreciated. It was okay to surrender a bit of your freedom, because society rewarded you for sacrificing for family.
Now fathers and husbands are the butt of sit-com jokes... the man is the blithering idiot. He is either a complete fool or a potential rape... waiting to happen.
For all you young guys out there you are a GODD@MN fool if you get married today in the US.
Now fathers and husbands are the butt of sit-com jokes... the man is the blithering idiot. He is either a complete fool or a potential rape... waiting to happen.
For all you young guys out there you are a GODD@MN fool if you get married today in the US.
stevo
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Make enough money to have people take care of you when you can't.
A girl in her early twenties would still lick your balls with joy even when its all the way saggy, money speaks.
Never underestimate the power of wealth.
They say its cheaper to keep her. Feministic Humor.
Truth is, it's cheaper to not get entangled with her in the first place.
Giving up all your resources including your last name for something as fickle as love,
the fallacy of constant monopolized pussie and thinking they'll take care for you long term
is the worst possible investment known to man.
When you finally settle down, she has to carry her financial weight. Don't be the hero.
A girl in her early twenties would still lick your balls with joy even when its all the way saggy, money speaks.
Never underestimate the power of wealth.
They say its cheaper to keep her. Feministic Humor.
Truth is, it's cheaper to not get entangled with her in the first place.
Giving up all your resources including your last name for something as fickle as love,
the fallacy of constant monopolized pussie and thinking they'll take care for you long term
is the worst possible investment known to man.
When you finally settle down, she has to carry her financial weight. Don't be the hero.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
We all die alone, dafuq are you talking about? It's all about what you did in your life before,l and the legacy you have after due to how you impacted the world before. What will be your legacy?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Oh sure, why not?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
You can't really plan this kind of thing no matter WHAT you do.
The best case is to simply accept that you WILL die alone, and get right with Jesus (or whoever) before it happens.
But if push came to shove, I'd choose a devoted partner over a paid servant any day of the week.
How do you do THAT?
Just make yourself INCREDIBLY valuable to enough people so they'll be DEVASTATED when you die.
You don't really need money for that.
The best case is to simply accept that you WILL die alone, and get right with Jesus (or whoever) before it happens.
But if push came to shove, I'd choose a devoted partner over a paid servant any day of the week.
How do you do THAT?
Just make yourself INCREDIBLY valuable to enough people so they'll be DEVASTATED when you die.
You don't really need money for that.
_sideways_
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That's kind of what I'm was getting at.
But yea...it sucks to not have any one to care about you.
As a young man, its no big deal cuz you can always change that.
That's kind of what I'm was getting at.
But yea...it sucks to not have any one to care about you.
As a young man, its no big deal cuz you can always change that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FEAR is doing the talking here.
Robert Greene's the 50th Law addresses this succinctly.
Realising and accepting that fundamentally you are alone in this world and at the end of the
day you can only truly rely on yourself. Sure, we build interdependent relationships in business and
in love; but everyone is at heart driven by their own self interest.
Acceptance of this should not be something to lament; it should be something that brings absolute freedom.
Ranger mike summed it up well.As an old guy,take my advice,and put yourself first.Live your life ! I wish I had back all the time and money I spent on women,as it got me nothing in life except money problems,stress,aggravation,and bull**** ! American women run (and ruin) your life !
dustmuffin
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I don't care. I'll be dead.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Poonani Maker
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yeah, it's an American woman thing, we've been Genocided culturally. Other countries live normally because there's not much materialistically to suck away their souls.