"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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~~~question to all~~~

oElS

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I was talking to this girl on aim (yeah i know, but it has to be done because she lives like 40 mins away), anyway shes going away in a few weeks, so heres a shortened version how the convo went.

"when are you going away"
"4 weeks"
"you should come over before then"
"we'll see"

What should i make of this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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thats a pretty stupid conversation.

Call her on the f*cking phone and find out if she wants to get together sometime. Don't use aim because you can't tell for sh*t what she's saying and how she's saying it.

Call her on the phone then i'll help you.
 

Jerky Boi

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I understand enough Womenese to know that that's a definite no..if she wanted to hang out with you she would have said so. But, if that's not convincing enough, I'd just call her and ask.
 

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i disagree, i do not tinhk it means no. sure it does not mean she wants to date you, but if she said that i would be pretty sure she wants to hang out. Remember girls do not wnat to higher there risk, thats why we should raise are risk and lower theres. If she was to say she loves you and really nwats to see you, she is rasing the risk of rejection. Sounds liek she just wnats to hang out, go for it and see what happens.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what?^^^^^^^^^^^^^
learn to be legible kid.

Yeah, the main thing is to call her. If she says no, and you feel like a ****, just slip in something like
"aww, too bad. Oh well i think !mary! might be up for it", then put the phone down.
 

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Is it really a no?
Until you ask, we won't know!
 

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Confucious say: Get more info...

outlook: not too good
 

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Its iffy. But call her on the phone, talk to her some, and say "We should go to "place" tonight" And see what her reaction is. Dont use aim becausr you cant hear connotation over aim, you need to be able to hear her voice.

See where it goes from there.
 

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I'm betting that's "We'll see" as in "We'll see how boring my life has to get before I spend any time with you."

Look elsewhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol, thanks all for responding, even the negative replies.
 
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LOL!!!!!!!!!

what do I make out of that? ........nothing.

How the hell are you gonna make anything out of that? It tells you and me nothing. She could like you or not like you. That little convo doesn't tell me sh*t.
 
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