"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ya kinda in the same place. Lookin for a girl to settle up with, but how you do that while spinnin plates and not comin off as an AFC
 
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lifemisspent said:
Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
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i think it depends like for e.g. if its a chick in your class then be honest, or in your school, or in university because she can mess you up by telling everyone your a player who is just looking to bone girls and blah, blah, blah!
these things then you must be honest with them or they will frig you up but if its a chick you see at a club or somewhere that is not related to your workplace or any of the examples i just put above then its okay for me
 
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