"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question on the 7 mistakes with women

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Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ya kinda in the same place. Lookin for a girl to settle up with, but how you do that while spinnin plates and not comin off as an AFC
 
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lifemisspent said:
Number 6......

6. Not being truthful about your desires.

Look, there are PLENTY of women who are more than happy to just have a casual sex relationship with you. But don’t bull**** women by telling them that you’re really interested in settling down into a long term relationship if you’re really not.

Really... it’s bad news, and will not help you get laid at ALL. Be honest about what you’re after, but learn how to communicate it in a way that is attractive to her

How do you make it sound attractive , what do you say ? Don't want a girl to think you're needy or in a rush to settle down.
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i think it depends like for e.g. if its a chick in your class then be honest, or in your school, or in university because she can mess you up by telling everyone your a player who is just looking to bone girls and blah, blah, blah!
these things then you must be honest with them or they will frig you up but if its a chick you see at a club or somewhere that is not related to your workplace or any of the examples i just put above then its okay for me
 
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